ios7 nightmare

Ever since ios7, I cannot manually put all my desired 3rd party songs and videos on the ipad 2. Per Apple "Care", I deleted/reinstalled itunes, and restored my ipad. When I drag the songs over, some go but most are greyed out in itunes and on the ipad. I want to manually sync, but when I drag some songs to the ipad, it puts a checkmark in the auto sync option on the music tab. When I drag movies over it changes my selection from manual sync to the checkmarked auto sync, which might be ok iF that worked but it doesn't. 5 hours so far, just wish I hadn't updated to ios7.

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